I will be on holidays from July 17th until Augustus 12th 2024. Messages will be answered a.s.a.p. after my holidays. Thank you for your understanding.
Ik ben op vakantie van 17 juli tot 12 augustus 2024. Berichten worden z.s.m. na mijn vakantie beantwoord. Bedankt voor je begrip.
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Helga Birgisdóttir · October 13, 2022 at 12:06 am
It’s important to keep my shameful thoughts when I believe people can’t be trusted for my wellbeing and to care about me. And I notice when I ask “do I need people to care about me” and “do I need people to accept me – to be happy and feel save?” And all people? In my experience I don’t. And still this fear is within. And this fear triggers the ‘warrior part’ in me and then I see others (also friends) as enemies.
I notice the innocence; deep desires for understanding from others and when I give that ‘need’ a compassion and space; I feel safe. It’s my own business to care about me.
marijketops · October 13, 2022 at 8:56 pm
What also comes up for me: “People won’t accept/care for me (when they know)” I found that this is where the big lie begins. We’re all walking around with these thoughts in our minds, and everyone pretends they’re not there. It’s insane!
Nanou Anne · October 14, 2022 at 5:47 pm
I love noticing the innocence <3